Embryo557: I let people take financial advantage of me. I feel like I’m a boring person. My ex-girlfriend asked me to move in with her after her mother passed away, and I lived in her mother’s room.
I had about 20k in the bank at 22, working hard for a good company. A year later, I hardly have 1k, and she’s sleeping with every dude in the apartment complex and not working.
I doubt I’ll see any of the 6k she owes me. I’ve just given money away to friends, and “friends” never getting paid back or anything.
I was driving all over the place to see people, and I’d always spend money like it was nothing, just to try and get people to like me and help me out when I needed it.
Even now, it’s hard to get a hold of someone to even stop by and just say hey, unless we are going out to eat or I’ve got a free drink. I’m to the point now where I don’t give a darn about anyone anymore.
A friend of mine came today who never returned calls or texts. He’s been a friend since 7th grade. I thought he was going to ask for more money, and I was afraid I was going to tell him to back off and get the hell out of my apartment.