PotTosser: I hate my SO. She makes me feel like crap regularly. She is childish and always blames her issues on the people around her, and for years when we’ve gotten into fights, or I’m trying to unload something she shifts the blame back on me, berates me, or calls me a wimp or such.
Multiple years of this have sapped all of my self-confidence and cost me multiple friends. I feel like I can’t address this or anything relating to her because it will upset her.
I’m aware that our relationship has and will ruin my life but I don’t have anything else in my life that is solid, and because we have built a life together.